YES I AM A SLUT

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I go to late night parties, I wear short dresses, I hang-out with boys, I enjoy myself, I do whatever I like and if that makes me a slut then yes I AM A SLUT. My life is difficult not because guys stare at me and make abusive comments but because those girls look at me in that despiteful manner. It is therefore said that a diamond is a woman’s best friend, because it does not judge and is simply there forever.

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The world can judge me by my clothes but when my girlfriends talk behind my back, it’s kind of hurting. I feel alone and lost sometimes when I search for a friend who understands me. In their hearts they want the same but will never accept it. When guys think I will sleep with them just because I party late night in a club wearing that sexy dress, I can bear that. Perhaps they think I have already been with 10 or more guys already. I know I can handle it.  But why do girls think the same I do not know.

Is it because I do not seek their approval in everything I do? Why do we have those bench-marks that we girls are expected to live up to? This world will be a better place if girls stop judging each other. A girl’s worst foes are not the men who think of her as an object of pleasure but those women who label her as a bitch or a slut. And moreover blame her short dresses if she is raped or abused. They say “she asked for it”. Does wearing a short dress mean asking for that abuse?

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What if I want to have a boyfriend, it is just because I dare to accept my desires in front of the entire world. Why is a girl supposed to be shy and silent all the time? What if I had break-ups? They have made me stronger. Why a girl who has been dumped by her boyfriend looked at with pitiful eyes? Why a wife is blamed for a divorce? Why a mother is blamed if the child does not behave?

In this predominantly man’s world I live like a girl that I am. May be I do not fit into that mould that you have created but it is because I believe in myself I dare to be different.
I am also a human being; I need love like everyone else. I need a caring arm around me, ready to catch me when I fall. May be I do not cry in front of the whole world but I do feel sad when I am judged and misunderstood. I wear that smile to deceive the world but deep within I want somebody to look through the smile and see those silent tears.

Girls who wear salwar-suits and other traditional dresses are considered to be the ideal daughter, the ideal wife but still those husbands seek for women who are ready to sleep with them for a single night. Why does it happen if they have such perfect wives?

Why men want to be accompanied by women with a short dress in those high class parties and still want a woman dressed in a beautiful saree when they return home? Just because I wear a short dress these guys will never want to introduce me with their parents. Because I just do not suit their conservative minds.

A guy may sleep with as many girls as he likes, I never heard any term for that? But if a girl does that, she becomes a slut. I refuse to change because I cannot pretend to be what I am not. Well, I refuse to live the way they live, to dress the way they dress, to discuss about things they want to and if that makes me a slut then yes I AM A SLUT.

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I refuse to live in that golden cage and trap my soul inside my body. Neither do I want to regret years later what about “what could have been”. I live right here right now neither in the past nor in the future. And if that makes me a slut then yes I AM A SLUT.

I drink and smoke, I walk hand in hand with the boy I love and I dare say so many others want to do the same. They do not dare because they are afraid that they might not be approved by the society. One thing I have learnt is no matter what you do, no matter where you go you will be judged. It is better to live for yourself and not try to live up to the standards created by the world.

The society must change the way they perceive women. Women must stop gossiping about other women only then can we expect others to change. Only that day a woman’s best friend will be another woman and they will no longer look for diamonds.

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